Adding older posts to the archive
I’m digitising my blog entries from 2006. While cleaning my office I found the print outs for most of them. My dad had printed them as I was reporting on my stay in Jakarta.
Over the years I moved domains, CMSs and topics. I picked up and dropped blogging several times, losing a lot of what I published over time.
Reading the old blogposts brought back memories, and I feel I’d like preserving them in a way that will allow me to do the same another 20 years from now.
I’ll be backdating them to the original publish date. No photo’s, as most of those got lost with the domain moves and as a result of a stolen laptop at one point. When I can find the photos that were connected, I’ll include them.
Reading some of the stuff I wrote 20 years ago makes me cringe a little. A good thing I guess 😆
Happy, hungry, circumcized kids
Don’t be scared by the title, it’s about ways of celebrating birthdays. I have been on several birthdays since I’ve been here, all different from the one I had yesterday (like I wrote about here). I was happily surprised that spending a lot of money on your birthday is not always spending it on booze or luxury. Begging streetkid in one of the traffic jams of Jakarta
Yesterday I congratulated Balqis when I met her in Dragon Fly (Kenny Dope came over from NY, he was playing nice). I asked her if she had done anything for her birthday, like invite friends and family as I would think the typical Dutch birthday would be like. She didn’t do that. Instead she had called a doctor to join her to circumcise boys in the streets. I was kind of amazed by what she had just told me, but it didn’t take long for me to understand what she ment; circumcizing kids. Being circumcised is something expensive for a lot of the kids on the street, so Balqis arranged a doctor to accompany her and help some of the kids. Circumcising is not only for Muslims. As far as I know in most tropical countries it’s a common thing to do due to hygiene. In the Netherlands I don’t have a lot of friends who had the skin removed. Instead of spending her money on expensive drinks, Balqis helped some kids in a priceless way.
I didn’t join Balqis, I have only met her a couple of times so far. I spend my day at the birthday of Cindy. Cindy also didn’t feel like getting hordes of people to her place. Having guests means cooking and a lot of extra trouble. She didn’t feel like that, also since the maids are gone for a short holiday. Instead she and her mother spend a day and a night in the kitchen cooking food. Yesterday around 11 I went to her place to meet up with her and San San. All the food was packed in little packages and she had some boxes of candy with her too.
Poor streetkids in Jakarta
We departed by car to cruise Jakarta. We stopped at all the begging kids and old/poor people to give them a little package of rice with fish. Kids got a snack with that too. It was the best birthday party I ever had; seeing all the kids sincerely smile and being happy, while calling their friends from the other street corners that would come running to the car to get some food too. Why did we give food to these kids, and why do I normally don’t give money to them? In The Netherlands I would not give money to homeless people because the probability they would by drugs instead of food is high. In Indonesia the kids often have to give their money to a ‘boss’ who will than give a very small part to the kids. Food is something the boss will not be able to use, so in this way it goes directly to the children.
Happy streetkids in Jakarta
A day like yesterday was.. priceless. And the costs were minimal. If you visit the traditional market, you would be able to make 30-50 packages of food (with the quantity of a moderate meal) for just 250.000 IDR (Less than 25 euros). I liked doing it so much, that I hope we can do this once a month. It’s not only a great way of spending time while having great conversation, it’s cruelly rewarding to see the faces of the people (probably even more rewarding because of the surprise to them that it was a bule giving them the food).
About birthday parties and me; I am happy with a little postcard, e-mail, SMS or a short call. I don’t like the masses of visitors at my place. A birthday is just as any other day, but my friends made it look different yesterday. If you want to spend your birthday hiding from people dropping by at your place, try spend it in this way. It’s so much fun to do.
DiningRia dinner club - Mencoba makanan yang tidak biasa
Saturday evening I met up with a couple of new bright young people for a dinner at Sushi Tei. The group of 10-12 people was a very diverse one if it comes to job backgrounds, most of the people present were in one or another way related to each other, although nobody knew everybody. It’s great to have a breath of fresh air, especially since I love meeting new people.
Although I have been very motivated in the beginning to master Indonesian as quickly as possible, I kind of put it on a low priority not too long after arrival. I have a feeling though that I should pick it up again, because I feel it really helps me a lot. So far I have been fortunate about the people I did meet. They either were skilled English people or they had poor English, but we could communicate if I tried my best with my poor Indonesian.
The people I was introduced to last Saturday were mostly related to marketing. I have an interest in marketing, and regularly read about marketing developments in The Netherlands, although I consider myself as a rookie if it comes to marketing. It’s nice to talk with these people and we covered a broad spectrum of conversational topics. DiningRia - eat something different!
I am happy they liked meeting me too, and therefore we decided to meet once a week. Obviously my curiosity about the dishes served here is one they could identify with. Therefore we’ll try to meet every Saturday in the time to come to try different dishes that would be considered strange at home (and by some here, not less). Of course it’s more like a good reason to meet and to do some fun stuff, still I am happy I can join in on their informal dinnerclub. If this is really going to happen you can expect a review on the place were we went to, a picture of what the dish looks like and a description about the taste and the price we paid for it. I believe the menu for next Saturday will bats. What strange food did you eat lately? Anything you can recommend? It’s not likely we’ll have this as an appetiser though. (thanks, but no thanks Oscar)
Traveldates
A lot of people ask me when I will leave for Jakarta. As for now, there is no fixed date yet (not ticket = no date). My plans are to leave on the 6th of July for Kuala Lumpur. Here I will stay with Oscar+Marjan and his parents (his parents own a factory there, it’s nice to see where Oscar grew up). After the weekend I’ll make the 2-hour passage to Jakarta where I’ll start on my actual assignment. The internship is set to take 6 months. I am not sure yet whether I’ll travel a lot afterwards. I plan to be back in The Netherlands, in time for the next semester (1st semester 2007). This means some time before it starts, since I’ll have to find myself a room again, aswell as get used to the Dutch way of life.
Second visit Dutch office
Today I went on my second visit to the office in Nuenen, this time I wasn’t alone. Mister Maathuis, my coordinator from the University, joined me to meet the Dutch MD and see the office. Most of the things that were talked about today were ment to make clear to both parties what one another wanted to achieve out of this coorperation: Mister Maathuis explained the rules for my Minor one more time and the MD of the company explained once more the history of the company/the business they are in. Also we discussed the contracts, and we decided to not use the ones from the uni, but the standard interns contract of the company. Within a month my ticket will be arranged and after I finished my two current assignments for international business (analyzing Tesco’s global activities) I will put my effort on constructing my assignments/paper for the course Project Preparement. Once I’ll start with this course, I’ll outline more specificaly what this course is about. For now all I can say is that I am to tired to go into details.
Getting to know each other
Today I received mail from the Managing Director (I’ll refer to that as MD for my own convenience) of the Dutch office with a request: could you please introduce yourself to the MD of the office in Jakarta? Sure I can! I am happy to do so.. That’s why I wrote my introduction, trying to keep it short. It’s kind of weird to write the mail, because so far I have not been in contact with the Jakarta MD. Writing it in a very amicable way would there for be not right. On the other hand I believe I’ve been in contact with the company now for such an amount of time that I can lower the formal tone in my mail (the Dutch MD told me not to call him “U” all the time). Indonesian culture might be different though. I think the mail I have written will be a good compromise, also giving enough information about myself.
Switch: Pivot to Wordpress
Everybody seems to use Wordpress in the blogworld… Should it be better than my spam magnet Pivot than? I hope so. At least one of the big advantages of wordpress is that it seems like is an endless amounts of plugins available. I should check these out after my exams (or late at night, once i feel too brainfried to study eighter subjects or bahasa Indonesia). I am happy that Markus (intern/student at QnAp) could point me in the right direction for fixing my installation problem. Actually it was a very stupid mistake I made time after time: a host is not a name, but a number (IP i guess). Wordpress automaticly starts with “localhost”, which made me asume it was possible to chose your own host name.. Incorrect assumption. Anyways, everything is fixed now so let’s not spill any more words on this subject.
Aproval from my internship coordinator
As much as it means: today I got green light from my internship coordinator. I called him to ask whether the internship description I sent him some time ago was okay. Everything looked fine, and we would work out these points in a Terms Of Reference form, the first paper that will be signed by QnAp. All I now need is a signature from QnAp, and an approval by my faculty at the university. They will have to approve on the extra load that I will receive credits for. Mister Maathuis thought that receiving these credits would be no problem at all - I hope he’s right.
Hunting for new opportunities
Yep.. You can’t always be lucky in your first try. Nestlé Indonesia turned down my application after further assessment: no assignments available for people with my background at this moment. No need to feel sad, because it has been very valuable and educative to go thru the whole process of searching for information and writing the letter. Also I learned to not aim at one target at once so now I’ll put more effort into several targets. I made a list of companies that have my attention at this moment. That’s not the only thing, I got an offer… or at least someone seemed interested in providing me with an internship opportunity!
Coverletter and Resume are finished!
It takes a while to finish, but I can finally say it is done! I finished my cover letter and my resume. Especially the letter was a hard assignment, since i wanted to make it perfect. It’s hard to put all the things that are you in your letter, in a way appealing way to the company. I think that in the end I wrote a good letter. Now it’s just waiting for the contact information from my friend Cindy in Indonesia and get some new portrait pictures to go with my resume. I hope I can send it in tomorrow and have an answer within 2 weeks. I am afraid it will take a little longer though. Patience..
Jakarta by night: streetscenery
Last night my friends advised me to not stay in the office till too late. I heard about experiences of friends that wanted to go for a party around this time last year, millions of Muslims would be celebrating in the streets, blocking the way and rejoicing. Not a good night to be out in the streets they said.
I took their advice and left for home little past ten. After the Ojek ripped me off (I thought traffic jam, than Ojek) because of the traffic argument I got home. I guess I live and work in the wrong side of town, because the streets were quite empty. No jams at all, but yes, more motors and more little groups of people than usually around that time of the night.
At home I found my boss practicing his guitar and voice. Today he found out that his brother will get married, so practicing needed to be done. It was too early for me to fall asleep anyways so I decided that since it was so quite in the streets it would be nice to get my camera and do a short walk around the block.
Outside the ambience was kind of.. strange. It might be the news that has influenced me a lot, or maybe the long era my friends used to play Command and Conquer Generals.. In a way the prayers coming from mosques gave me a slight uncomfortable feeling. Connecting it with the news items which usually are about bombings and war and the theme of the game of Command and Conquer Generals, I don’t think it is strange I did so. I didn’t realize this feeling till I was walking outside yesterday and listening to all the mosques that were airing their prayers in what seemed to me an unstructured way. The streets were empty, an occasional motor with happy people past me, the air didn’t seem as bad as it usually seems; still feels like a thick, warm, wet blanket. Cooler than during earlier yesterday though.
Walking out of the gates of my neighborhood I didn’t feel like walking the same way home. I took the way around, not knowing that during the night there is only one entrance that is open to my neighborhood. The rest is sealed of with high fences and guards drinking tea and talking the night away about what ever subject, while sitting around little bonfires or laying on their motorcycles.
On my way I passed several little parties. People were playing on self made drums, others gathered around ghetto blasters listening to Indonesian, hyped up Hip-Hop.
Walking along the bigger roads trucks filled with families passed by. Flooded instead of filled might be a better choice of word, since there were so many people on the truck. Some even had to sit on the roof of the drivers cabin, because the back didn’t provide any more room for them anymore. The children were holding flags I did not recognize, I guess flags from their neighborhoods. The trucks past too quick to take a good pictures though. I don’t want to flash the driver to death (if my small flash would already be able to do that) and since it’s so dark all the pictures are taken with either 4 or 8 second exposure time. And no, I don’t have a steady hand ;) .
After my 1,5 hour walk I returned home. The guard that accompanied me from the neighborhood gate to my place must have thought something like bule gila when I told him I just went out for a small walk. He seemed to know my name, as well as Rohims’ (my driver) and that of Ronny (my other boss) name. I guess now I know what the guards are talking about, gossiping away the night shift. All fine to me, I do love the placid street scenery by night and don’t need to be in a car to enjoy it.


The new board of my student society
How I love (and miss) the Dutch student culture. While it is not done to be fond of your fraternity/guild life it anymore after one or two years, my city has a culture of it’s own, probably due to the rather small student societies. My society, the largest with just over 400 members, has a culture where it’s normal to stop by till you graduate. The larger and older societies usually have a high level of young people in the bar, while older people tend to prefer drinking in a more quite place, at least, so I’ve been told by friends in other cities.
The student board term ends in August, just before the start of the new academic year. This has been some time ago, but it wasn’t till yesterday that I found the pictures. I do know the guys quite well. Erwin (middle picture above) is in my fraternity Thoridor, Ruben (on the right above) and I lived together for a couple of years at Asgard (and he’s a son of Thor as well). The guy in the left picture above is Siebe-Thijs. I used to listen to his weekly dj-sets till I moved to Jakarta. ST, In case you are reading, when will you start sending me those promised DVDs with music? I think it’s good that the women of the board still don’t wear suits. It is an issue within the new board every year I believe. Ladies, you are young and still look good, think about stop wearing skirts like this when you are over 40 if you really want to stop.
The guy that took the pictures is in Thoridor too. He took over the fraternity photo archive after I left, and has a passion for photography. Arjan, that’s his name, has a nose for good deals and can fix you up with a good photo gear for a very sharp price. We did some research together, after which I bought my Rico Caplio R4 for a bargain. After having it for some time my dad and another friend decided to buy the same one, excellent choice.. And to you Arjan, I can’t say anything else than brilliant pictures - as usual!


Hungry hide and seak
Public holidays! I love them: everybody is out of town. It’s quiet on the deserted streets of Jakarta, the air is much better and the ambiance is not the same quick-run-quick one. The last thing never bothered me, but it’s not something I am missing this week.
Public holidays! I hate them. While I say everybody is out to their kampung, I mean most of the people. And especially the ones that help me fulfill my needs are. The maid has permanently left, as I told before. The office boy has his days off, and even the security guards are not here to hang in their chairs all day long. I am all fine with that, but I was kind of bothered around lunch. I didn’t need more than once to learn that it’s better to bring your lunch in the official public holidays (last Monday till yesterday), but I didn’t expect the warung next door would still be closed today. I do miss Christines’ Nasi Bogona and my Nasi Campur, (she always gives me extra :) ). It was kind of sad to find out that she is still closed, and that she probably will not open again till Monday.
Rudi, my colleague from Belgium, didn’t mind much; we would just call the delivery service of the Pizza Hut for some hot steaming pizza (with the CheezBurst sides, nice!). We didn’t care that it probably would take half an hour to deliver, we were hungry and didn’t feel like waiting till after office hours.. I could do the ordering, I practiced my insufficient Indonesian skills enough the past week. I tried to call a couple of time but didn’t get to talk to someone on the other end of the line. The phone must either have been off the hook or there was no reply on the other side of the line - berlibur.
Our last rescue should have been the 24 hour delivery service of Mc Donalds. The phone was answered by a polite lady telling that all the lines were busy at that time. With an accent in her English that I could not quite place, she kindly asked to try again later. Rudi tried for quite a few times, but eventually gave up; no lunch today. Although Rudi was hungry, he didn’t feel like making the 5 minutes ride to the nearest mall, neither did I. This week Jakarta is on holiday, and now we knew it: the empty stomach kept reminding us.
My boss came in around 2. He slept in late today (I was not surprised, last night he was still watching movies around 4 - he didn’t answer my question if he would still get up for work when I asked him this morning). Since he didn’t have breakfast lunch yet he wondered if we wanted to join him at the food court in Taman Anggrek. Of course we would ;) . Arriving at Taman Anggrek I suddenly understood where all the cooks, phone operators and other people were; ice skating in Taman Anggrek. For the people not familiar with the mall, especially those in my freezing home country: yes, people like to do ice-skating here while it’s boiling hot outside (probably around 35 degrees at the afternoon). When I arrived I didn’t expect people in tropical climates to be able to stand foot steadily. A stupid assumption I guess, just not something I did expect.
In a week or so I’ll complete a big project at work that took about a year. In some ways this year felt like a week. In some other ways this year easily counts for 3.
I just had to fill out my web domain for a comment on a blog, and I wondered what would show if someone would check my page.
For some time I was burning through fantasy books. A genre I never really red before. There are some photos from work trips too. And if I would have thought of posting additional images, it would have been from the trip I took for work, or the new daily habit of biking to pick up one of the kids from school.
I should post more snapshots here to capture the moments in time. It makes it very tangible to look back and feel the moments the posts were made at.
Finished reading: The Empire of Gold by S. A. Chakraborty 📚it took me a bit to finish this one, but I am glad I did. This is a proper end to the 3-part series. 4/5
Watched: Ladies First 🍿 it was suggested by friends. Based on the description, I felt like I had already seen it, but I did not. It was OK, or would it be not done to give it a 3/5? 🫣
Finished reading: The Kingdom of Copper by S. A. Chakraborty 📚quite different from the first book in the series. I liked it, but didn’t get through the book as I stopped listening in the evening. Still, I’d give it a 4/5 and have the third book as next on the list.
Finished reading: The City of Brass by S. A. Chakraborty 📚 I finished listening this book within a week or 2; refreshing to hear about story inspired by Arabic folklore, and set in the Arabic world. I didn’t realize this was a trilogy (actually with 4 books out), so the end wasn’t really the end. On to part 2 then… 4/5
Finished reading: Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother by Amy Chua 📚 suggested by a co-worker. She once read it and was reminded of how some of her Chinese colleagues would be relentless in their roles. For a long time I wasn’t sure if the book was parody in some way, but I do think it was written true, yet also aware by the author that it might come across as alien for non Chinese readers (and that it played into that). Still, an interesting read, especially after I got the ‘why’ for the recommendation while close to the end of the book. 3/5